Do you feel out of control of your life?

In the past there have been times when I felt someone else was in charge of my life and it felt awful. I wanted to hide under the blankets hoping everything would change so I could go on with happiness. Unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way.

The key to taking control of the quality of your life and having what you want is a 3-step process.

1. Identify your negative beliefs.
2. Get clear on your new vision.
3. Find and consistently use techniques that work for you.

You may have taken one of these steps before, you may have had an ‘Aha’ moment but maybe you found the positive results lasted only temporarily. There are a few reasons why this happens…

Our negative beliefs are generally formed by the age of 5 and they hang out at the core of our being. You may have some idea what some of your negative beliefs are but because it’s painful to deal with them, we steer clear, taking a detour when we catch a glimpse of those beliefs. Let me help you navigate through and deal with them effectively so you become empowered and they no longer rob you of energy.

Secondly, you probably have a general idea of what you want in life but when it comes down to specifics I imagine your vision gets cloudy. With a cloudy picture you won’t be able to create the clear results you’re looking for. Together let’s define your new vision.

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Finally, you must find and consistently use techniques that work for you. Even if you have a crystal clear vision, if you haven’t taken the power back from your core negative beliefs, your results will only be temporary. A perfect example is the lottery winner who ends up worse off financially after winning then before they won. This happens because they don’t have an internal belief system to support having that much money. In other words, their negative beliefs sabotaged their financial success. This is also the reason why they were broke in the first place! Let me guide you through various techniques that will make sure you don’t sabotage something you value.

Can you see the value in this 3-step process of transformation? The goal is for these 3-steps to become a part of your daily lifestyle.

I have been where you are, I know it doesn’t feel good and it may feel like the only way out is a long and hard path. It doesn’t have to be a struggle. These 3-steps are life changing when you consistently do the work. With coaching we create that consistency for you, providing time each week to work with anything that tries to get in the way of your success.

Complete transformation will not happen over night, although most clients feel instant relief during their first session and have noticeable results and life changes within their first 5 weeks. I know…if you’re anything like me you want to see immediate results. I want you to see results as quickly as you do. The key is relaxing into the coaching process. There is a natural tendency to try and figure it out. This is our way to protect ourselves from change, its resistance. I’ve talked before about being activated – having a reaction with strong feelings. This is our clue we aren’t on the right track. No one wants to feel bad, and you shouldn’t have to.

With Transformational Life Coaching and the TransCovery Process you’re talking to me, a real person, someone who went through this exact same process, and changed her life into an extraordinary one of abundance, happiness and pleasure.

As your coach, consider me your most intimate confidante, someone who not only understands what you’re going through but who also is highly skilled to help you. I provide a safe place to unravel your worries and sort through life’s obstacles, offering you an opportunity to deal with the good, the bad, and the ugly, to kick those negative thoughts and beliefs to the curb, and relax into your new life as it is revealed to you.

If this feels right, make the decision to give yourself the greatest gift of self love and we can start rewriting your future. I want to work with you so you too can start seeing positive changes. Isn’t it time to stop waiting for all the people and all the plans to come together? Are you ready for a fresh, new perspective? The life you deserve, the life you want, is a phone call away. You can do this! If you’re ready, send me an email and I’d love to help you on your path.

xoxo

Angela Wilkinson

http://thegoddessnextdoor.com